Can We Take A New Staircase To The Elevator Pitch ?

 

A couple of weeks back, I was fortunate to be invited by a well respected University in the UAE to do a guest talk ( if it came across as ‘ guess talk ‘, my apologies) with their final year graduating students and some faculty members. Future engineers, management graduates, psychologists, economists, accountants, technologists etc constituted the diverse audience set. It was very gracious of them to invite me and I am grateful for the learning opportunity it provided.

 

 

Since a majority of the audience viz the students were on the cusp of going into industry after their graduation, one touchpoint of the engagement centered around what is conventionally called ‘ the elevator pitch ‘.

 

 

What is an elevator pitch?

 

 

Not that it maybe needed but outlining here what an elevator pitch is : An elevator pitch is a brief (think 30 seconds!) way of introducing yourself, getting across a key point or two, and making a connection with someone. It’s called an elevator pitch because it takes roughly the amount of time you’d spend riding an elevator with someone.

 

 

Psychology 101 would argue that the brain remembers what it least expects, so deliver the unexpected. So, the typical elevator pitch would be mostly about ‘ I, me, myself..blah blah blah…and more blah blah blah’. Hence, often times failing to get the acknowledgment, respect and setting the foundation for keeping the conversation going well after the elevator doors have closed, metaphorically speaking.

 

 

So, how do we disembark on the correct floor of onwards, upwards and progress? How about a dose of ‘ pattern interrupt‘ ?

 

 

What is a ‘ pattern interrupt? ‘

 

 

A pattern interrupt, put simply, is anything that surprises the person you’re talking to. Prospects expect certain things from salespeople. By breaking the mold, you’ll alter their apprehensive state and make them much more receptive to you.

 

 

Which is exactly what you are seeking to do in an elevator pitch. Except what you do here is focus on the person on the person that you are talking to and make it about her occupation, interests etc etc rather than be about you being the best, the tallest, the fattest…

 

 

Originating from neuro-linguistic programming, pattern interrupt involves recognizing an unwanted pattern, disrupting it, and leading someone to the desired behavior.

 

 

A study conducted at Harvard University’s Department of Psychology by Dr Ellen Langer is worth looking into. The study exposed a senior male group of participants to be away from routines at home and nursing facilities, to live for a week in an environment that was physically similar to where they had lived when they were younger. They discussed historical events as if they were current news( the power of active communication), took care of their own ADLs( Activities of Daily Living) and personal needs, and shared photos of their younger selves. A week later, they showed improvement in physical strength, manual dexterity, posture, perception, memory, cognition, taste sensitivity, hearing, and vision. They even showed improved scores on IQ testing. Visual cues within our environment serve as reminders of memories and functioning.

 

 

It is good to perennially question convention to make things better. Probably mandatory. Because the world is desperate for new thinking and therefore new possibilities.

 

 

Ready for some OTISm? And students, as you get ready to step into the real world, how about creating your anti-resume? And borrow richly from the idea of pattern interrupt in so doing!

 

 

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Respect the Unexpected. Expect the Unexpected!

 

Psychology 101 has this to say ” The brain remembers what it least expects, so deliver the unexpected “. The brain being the laziest organ in the body is mostly on default mode, plucking our accumulated behaviors and responses that have taken space in its warehouse over the years and wanting us tenants to respond in the  ‘ usual ‘ manner.

 

That said, in a zeitgeist craving for attention(the most coveted social currency), with all the deficit of time, resources, patience and buying power, default mechanisms will not work.

 

Build in enough flexibility and buffer to prepare for the unexpected. A margin of safety. Life does throw curve balls ever so often. So, make provision for the unexpected when you design your life. That way, we will not be caught like a deer in the headlights.

 

To expect the unexpected shows a thoroughly modern intellect. Resilience is all about being able to overcome the unexpected.

 

Most people want to be circled by safety, not by the unexpected. The unexpected can take you out. But the unexpected can also take you over and change your life.

 

Probably easier said than done but it is uncertainty which fills life with beauty, excitement, and joy. For an adventurous life, seek not security. Dance with uncertainty to create magnificence and beauty.

 

Fear is a reaction, creativity is a response.

 

When nothing is sure, everything is possibleMargaret Drabble

 

For those keen on understanding the importance of it, I would urge you to read this blog on uncertainty.

 

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It’s an ever & over connected economy, but, we have never been more lonely!

The barrage is non-stop. Requests for connections. Another feather in the cap. Another vanilla metric to flaunt your social standing. Another ‘virtual friend’.

 

The legendary Greek Philosopher Aristotle once said, “Man is by nature a social animal, an individual who is unsocial naturally and not accidentally is either beneath our notice or more than human. Society is something that precedes the individual.” He said this because human beings live in groups whether they are smaller like a family or larger like a city or country.

 

And that precisely is the reason why societal interventions seem to be dominating the discourse when it comes to offering solutions to foster connection, often to the exclusion of more individual ones. There are myriad theories about why we are struggling to connect, and just as many proposed solutions.

 

 

According to Surgeon General Vivek Murthy, the United States is in the throes of what he recently labeled a loneliness “epidemic”, with nearly one in four Americans over 18 say they often or always feel lonely. Things may not be very different in other countries.

 

Findings at the intersection of neuroscience and psychology suggest that feelings of loneliness are a biological signal, a clarion call to remind us that we need other people. That being said, there is a theory that runs counter to the default. Without the crutch of social connection, what we, as individuals can do to alleviate the situation- most of them are frictionless and non controversial- like engaging with nature or woods( if our modern day cities have them), physical exercise, one on one cognitive intervention and such like.

 

Mind you that this is not a prescription asking you to plough a lone furrow but a reconciliation to the fact that we need the best of both worlds to fight this ‘ epidemic ‘ via a personal as well as collective approach.

 

As we all know, it takes nothing to join the crowd, but, you also have to go ahead, even if no one goes with you.

 

” Alone is a state of being or body, whereas loneliness is state of mind “- Invajy

 

As I conclude, may I tempt fate and ask you to take a look at this article in BrandKnew about the power of emotions.

 

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